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Why You Keep Fighting About the Same Things.

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And why that petty argument about the dishwasher isn't really about the dishwasher. A tale as old as time. You’ve been here before: an eye-roll-inducing argument about how the towels need to be folded a certain way (yes, triangle-corner people, I’m looking at you). Or the third round of "But you said you were fine!" when, in fact, fine meant absolutely not fine and simmering like a pot about to boil over. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. These recurring fights aren’t just annoying - they’re the emotional equivalent of driving over the same pothole every day and wondering why your car feels wobbly. Spoiler alert: the pothole is your unresolved baggage, and it’s wreaking havoc on your emotional suspension system. But don’t worry - I’m here to lovingly call out your patterns, dive deep into why you keep hitting rewind on these fights, and sprinkle in enough humour to make the truth bombs easier to digest. And if you’re an eldest daughter? Oh, honey. You’ve got a front-r...