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 (And how to handle it all like a boss). We’ve all heard the phrase, “Being single is empowering!” and “Self-love is the best kind of love!” And sure, on some days, it feels like the ultimate slogan for your life. But let’s be honest for a second: sometimes, being single really sucks. I mean, truly, heartbreaking sucks. You’re scrolling through Instagram and see that couple on a romantic beach vacation, holding hands and staring into each other’s eyes. And then there's you, holding your phone like an awkward third wheel at the party - like, why do you even have the heart emoji in your phone when you have no one to send it to? But, wait - before you let the spiral of despair begin, let me remind you of something: you are a boss girl. And a boss girl doesn’t let a little thing like heartbreak ruin her. She heals that hurt, builds up her boundaries like a fortress, and keeps slaying life like the queen she is. So, let’s get real about the heartbreak side of being single (it’s not all ...

A hilariously honest love letter to flying solo. Oh, the single life! It’s often portrayed as a tragic state of existence in movies, where the protagonist sits in their apartment eating ice cream straight from the tub, wearing a blanket cape, and wistfully staring at couples frolicking in parks. But let me tell you something: being single is secretly the greatest gift you didn’t know you needed. Sure, relationships are lovely, with their shared laughs, heartfelt moments, and splitting the cost of Netflix. But single-hood is like a giant permission slip to live life exactly how you want, with no compromises. So, grab your blanket cape and a spoon (because we’re still eating that ice cream, but it’s for celebratory reasons now), and let’s dive into the joyous, ridiculous, and utterly fabulous perks of being single. 1. Your Schedule Is All Yours When you’re single, your calendar is as free as a bird in a Disney movie. Want to spend the entire weekend binge-watching The Great British B...

How to fix your cracked love Stupid effin heartbreak. That BS cocktail of sorrow, anger, and eating an entire tub of ice cream while ugly-crying to sad love songs. Whether you’ve been ghosted, dumped, or found out your crush is dating someone else (who owns a yacht, naturally), heartbreak feels like your chest got dropkicked by emotions. However you choose to deal with them, remember, feelings are like water...they will find a way out. So before you board up that door to your heart and vow to be celibate forever because people suck, let me walk you through a couple of ways to work through the hurt. So take a deep breath, my friend. You're not alone, and you will survive this. In fact, one day you'll look back and laugh about how you sent 12 consecutive texts ending with "okay, but seriously, one more thing." Until then, here’s your funny yet foolproof guide to mending your poor, broken heart. (PS: if this doesn't work, I think the local nunnery is recruiting). Ste...

The post eating-ice-cream-from-the-tub guide to moving on like a boss.   So you’ve survived the initial storm of heartbreak. You’ve cried enough to refill the ocean, eaten your body weight in ice cream, and sent exactly zero regrettable texts to your ex (or at least, only one - progress, right?). The breakup playlist has been retired, and now you’re sitting there, staring into the void, wondering, What next? Congratulations! You’ve made it to the post-vent stage, the awkward phase where you’re not actively sobbing but also not ready to sign up for a speed-dating event. This is where the real work begins: not just getting over the breakup but truly moving forward. This is where if you're not careful, instead of opening up your heart, you can tie it tight into a knot that prevents love from ever taking bloom again. So to help you avoid that pitfall, here’s how to take your broken heart and turn it into a masterpiece of personal growth, all with a touch of humour to keep things light....