How to Handle Shame Like a (Mostly) Functional Eldest Daughter
A funny guide with serious advice. Good Lord, shame....That sneaky, sweaty-palmed emotion that creeps up when you forget someone’s name for the tenth time, accidentally reply-all with an embarrassing comment, or eat an entire pizza alone when you said you were “starting fresh” today. While guilt tells us, “Hey, maybe don’t do that again,” shame whispers, “You’re the worst person alive for even thinking it.” Fun, right? And while you theoretically know that everyone feels shame (even Beyoncé has probably experienced shame at some point though she probably just sings it into submission), your shame is LOUDER because it's in your head 24/7. The goal isn't to avoid shame altogether - that’s impossible. The goal is to deal with it in a way that doesn’t involve a spiral of self-loathing, midnight Googling "how to escape my own existence," or unnecessarily elaborate apologies to everyone you’ve ever met. Let’s tackle this beast with some humour and practical stra...