Why We Crave Belonging (And Why Fitting In Is a Trap)
And why seeking to fit in is the wrong way to go about it. Hey girl, do you ever get that deep, nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach, like something’s missing but you can’t quite put your finger on it? Like you just need to be part of something? To find your squad, your tribe, your people? Yeah, I see you nodding. I’ve been there too - probably, we’ve all been there. It’s human nature. We crave connection. We want to fit in. We want to be seen. We want to be part of something bigger than ourselves, and we want it to feel like a warm hug in a world that sometimes feels cold and lonely. But why is that? Why do we feel this need for belonging in the first place? And why, oh why, do we still end up scrolling through Instagram at 2 a.m., wondering if anyone else has it all figured out? Well, buckle up, sister, because we’re about to get into the juicy science behind why we crave that sense of belonging, and why - no matter how many self-help books we read or yoga poses we ...